While I have been masturbating since the beginning of high school, I’ve never had sex. The thing is, I rarely fully get off. I think the only time I have was while using a shower head. I use the Touch by We-Vibe, but once I can feel an orgasm coming on, it becomes harder and harder to get there because my clitoris becomes too sensitive.
Do you have any tips to help overcome this?
Thanks,Rachel, 24, NC
The good news is that you’re not alone in this. In fact, it’s so great that you already are on your way to figuring out your body’s needs, something that I always talk about in my podcast. Every person is different, so while some love and need a lot of direct stimulation, others need a lot less. The clitoris is jam-packed with nerve endings—8,000 to be exact—so it’s no wonder that some women are hypersensitive.